Simple Strategies To Be More Present
With so much demanding our attention every day, it’s easy to feel like life is happening on fast-forward. Often, we’re either focused on what’s next or caught up in what just happened, and this can lead to unnecessary stress, worry and anxiety. However, there are strategies you can use to bring yourself back to the present moment, allowing you to feel more grounded, centred, and connected.
Here are a few simple options to help you get started.
Begin your day with a moment of stillness
Instead of jumping into tasks the moment you wake up, give yourself a few quiet minutes to set an intention. Ask yourself how you want to approach the day. Maybe it’s with a sense of calm, focus, or positivity. This practice serves as a gentle reminder to check in with yourself throughout the day, reconnecting to yourself and what’s important, and helping you stay grounded.
Practice micro-meditations
Meditation doesn’t have to be long, complex, uncomfortable or weird. Short, mindful pauses — even just a few breaths — can make a difference. Try taking three deep, slow diaphragmatic breaths down into your belly whenever you find yourself waiting; whether it’s for an appointment, at a red light, or even while the kettle boils.
With practice, these micro-meditations help anchor you in the present and reset your nervous system, even during busy times.
Turn everyday tasks into mindful moments
One of the easiest ways to bring more presence into your day is by turning routine activities into moments of mindfulness. For example, if you’re preparing your morning coffee, slow down enough to notice each step: the sound of the beans grinding, the aroma, and the warmth of the mug in your hands.
Practicing mindfulness with daily tasks is a simple, enjoyable way to stay in the moment by getting you to slow down and notice only what’s happening at that point in time.
Limit technology distractions
Technology can easily pull you away from the present, so consider setting ‘screen-free’ periods in your day or reducing time on apps that result in mindless scrolling or constant notifications that draw your attention.
Start small, like putting your phone away during meals or silencing notifications for a short interval. These small steps can reduce distractions and help you feel more connected to what’s happening around you, rather than constantly being drawn into the digital world.
Savour simple pleasures
Being present doesn’t mean you need to create memorable moments all the time. It’s about finding joy in the small things — like the warmth of sunlight, the sound of laughter or the first sip of coffee. This can seem strange, but there’s a reason to it! By appreciating these simple pleasures, you cultivate a sense of contentment and ease with your current environment, bringing you closer to a state of true presence.
Practice real-time gratitude
Gratitude is powerful for keeping us grounded in the present. Instead of waiting until the end of the day, try noticing what’s going well in the moment. It could be a good conversation, a comfortable chair, or a moment of calm. Real-time gratitude helps shift your focus to what’s enjoyable right now, rather than what’s coming next.
Your energy flows where your attention goes – if we focus on the negatives, we tend to get caught up in negative thought patterns. The same is true of the opposite – when we focus on positives and the things we’re grateful for, we tend to have more positive thought patterns. If you’re not used to this it may feel silly or like hard work, but it’s worth pursuing in the long term.
Notice where your worry comes from
If you find yourself getting caught up in stressful thoughts, it can help to try and take a moment to observe them. Is there anything about what’s worrying you that you can control? If there’s nothing you can change, it’s good to practice letting go. If there’s something you can change, what actions do you need to take to either change or resolve the problem, or change the way you’re responding to it?
Also notice whether you’re worrying about things that have already happened in the past that you can’t change, or about things in the future that haven’t happened yet and may not happen at all. Again, how could you either change the outcome or the way you are responding to it?
To sum up
Being more present doesn’t mean completely changing your routine. Small, mindful adjustments can help you find more balance, focus, and joy in the everyday moments.
By starting with intention, practicing brief meditations, turning routine tasks into mindful practices, limiting distractions, savouring the little things and embracing real-time gratitude, you’ll find yourself more connected to the life unfolding around you. Give these strategies a try and see how they help you feel more present each day.
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